π£ Step 44: No Effort is WastedI've put a lot of time the past month into my new app idea, and it's been wildly fun. It's an exciting creative venture, and I've been learning a lot about entrepreneurship, software development, and the tech startup world. This is the importance of 1. passion projects, 2. trying new things, and 3. being okay with whatever outcome. You never know how one venture will benefit you in a totally random, different way in the future. Example: I've always loved math, and I studied it all the way until I discovered marketing in 2020. Now, I'm not doing algebra or calculus every day anymore. But you know what I'm a lot better at now because of my math background? Problem solving, pattern recognition, and data analysis. β No effort is wasted. Hank Green had a genuinely phenomenal YouTube video around this concept recently where he talked about the Mola mola fish. They can release up to 300 MILLION eggs at a time. And so few of them even hatch that if you rounded to the nearest percent, 0% of them make it. (And to make it even crazier, the babies that do make it can grow up to 60 MILLION times their hatching size) But obviously those 300 million eggs are not wasted, because some of them do hatch. Mola mola would be extinct if absolutely 0% survived. Yet they live on, and they can't predict which handful of eggs survive, so they have to continue their process. And so should you. Your chances are a lot higher than 0%. Your random Google searches, side hobbies, or hand-raises in meetings can turn into exponential growth in the future, like the Mola mola. Also, remember that countless inventions, discoveries, and moments of growth for people and society were completely by accident. Coca-Cola, penicillin, the microwave oven, tea bags, and countless accidental, "randomly bumping into you," "this person got sick so we need you to fill in" human interactions and opportunities we'll never hear about. You never know how one thing (or person) will show up again in the future. Nor should you focus on it. So:
And be okay with not needing an immediate purpose or outcome for those actions. No effort is wasted. You are adding tools to your life's toolbox, and you never know when a random tool can come in handy. So build your toolbox. See you next Thursday, Steppers. We will succeed, Grayson βgraysonstepanek.comβ Song of the Week:
Yep, I'm officially back in my hyperpop bag. Discovered Westwood last week and been jamming this album a lot. This one immediately stuck out to me, and it's truly impressive how good his music is since he's only 19. He's got a great grasp of melody and beat selection, and this song is just a blast to blare in the truck. Excited for this new wave of hyperpop! |
For: the ambitious person figuring out how to lead, grow, and intentionally build a fulfilling life - one step up at time. From: someone on the journey too. Released every Thursday at 4:30pm CST.
π£ Step 50: Processing Complex Emotions These past few days I've experienced a handful of things where I just haven't immediately known what to feel. This newsletter is both an act to sort out my own thoughts while hopefully helping you do the same. Here are some of those experiences, and my complex feelings around them: 1. My dad's dad passed away Monday night. We weren't close with him - really no one in the family was (long story short: his own choices). My dad and I hadn't seen or talked...
π£ Step 49: Bring the Mountain Home Seth Adams, Zack Kurowski, and I at Horizons In 2021, I was blessed to attend Sigma Chiβs Horizons Leadership Summit in Snowbird, Utah with two close fraternity brothers. As I look back on the past 5 years, that trip was my inflection point. Horizons was my light switch. Before Horizons, I was a leader, but it was more out of happenstance. I was innately good at things, but I never really invested in them. I was the kid who got good grades but never really...
π£ Step 48: Get a Bigger World Ash and I in Murren, Switzerland. The world definitely felt bigger here. I saw this video of a guy recounting a college interaction with his roommate. He was ranting over this small annoyance with a coworker when his roommate said βDude, you need a bigger world.β I.e. you need bigger problems. The lesson: Find big things to focus on, and the small things become irrelevant. So often, we get caught up over the small things: The fast food worker forgetting your...